I’ve been sick (pre-school) and we’ve been BUSY! Ahh! Living alone for the first time since getting married (!!!) Dad’s house is built (!!!) have a whole new VIEW because we knocked down the HEDGES and we’re building a shed-come-home-gym (!!!) So! Many! Changes! This video features a big chat with my dad about intergenerational living and our journey to where we’re at. A lot of you have been super curious about our set-up. Let me see lots of thumbs ups for more papa Murphy in the vlogs! He’s such a legend haha. FULL PLAYLIST OF HOUSE TO HOME VIDEOS: https://youtube.com/ playlist?list=PLEOdtoJghxaICBeSaxNjv0r0tiN94ZA3w&si=O4tnJA6qflUQA0Us ______ My clothes are from Joanie: https://joanieclothing.com Makeup I was raving about is all from Sculpted By Aimee! They gifted me some new bits to try but I’ve bought from them multiple times . Incredible brand! https://www.sculptedbyaimee.com/?wgu=272375_16644_16949638076789_785f7ba938&wgexpiry=1726499807&utm_adgroup=webgains&source=webgains&siteid=16644 Karcher V6 cordless vacuum! OBSESSED is not ENOUGH of a word! *gifted https://www.kaercher.com /ie/home-garden/vacuum-cleaners/vc-6-cordless-11986610.html The Baby Tribe podcast … keep an ear out for my episode! https://open.spotify.com/show/4CKujAmMoLk9bi6fxJUwut GET 10 % OFF AT NATIONAL TILE! I worked with them on a past collaboration, it’s the same place where my dad has bought his tiles and stunning oak flooring from (featured in this vlog). They’re offering a discount to my followers using the code “Mel10” – National Tile are an hour outside of Dublin (in Dundalk) and they have an enormous show room with SO much stock already available to buy in their warehouses so no/less waiting, they have so many options for all budgets .. . it’s well worth a trip to their show room. My dad is CHUFFED with his purchases! https://www.national-tile.com/ ______ Keep up with me on INSTAGRAM between YouTube videos: https://instagram.com/ melaniemurphy/?hl=en

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    1. Think of your dream life as … a wall. A wall doesn’t just appear out of thin air. You have to build it, one brick at a time. And you need to focus on laying each brick instead of focusing on your non-existent wall. Not only so that your future wall will look and feel right because you’ve done the job right but because the PROCESS of building the wall that represents your life…*that* IS your life. Life is the journey. It’s all the little moments between the big moments. We all need reminding of this from time to time!

      Renovating a house. Lads. It is such an absolute shit show haha, just like doing a degree or falling in love or having kids or writing books! There’s aaalways cost, there’s sleepless nights and tears, there’s disappointment … but so many millions of moments of joy, too.

      Purpose. Enjoyment. Learning. Re-learning. Excitement. Satisfaction. Stress. Magic!

      Building a life is all of that and SO much more!

      If you are sitting, waiting for someone else to build YOUR life … if you are scrolling online watching other people build THEIR lives … this is your invitation to reach for that first brick. It might be a therapy call or a chat with an estranged family member. It might be accepting a party invite or it might be setting up a dating profile. Maybe it’s applying for a new job. Getting a personal trainer! Reading a book that might inspire you!

      Or maybe you first need to reach for a hammer. Maybe you gotta knock some walls that just ain’t working for you! So you can build your life anew.

      And you can. You absolutely fucking CAN.

    2. This was such a great catch up vlog! I’ve missed your content 🥰 So many things to be excited for with your lovely & ever-evolving family 💗

    3. I grew up my entire life with my parents, grandparents, and uncle in the same house. I can’t imagine life any other way, my grandma is my best friend, and it taught us all so much💕

    4. This is so beautiful, watching your channel over the years has been so much fun ! Watching you film in the living room & Thomas constantly bouncing the baby or passing through with the baby is so cute 🥹🥹🥹

    5. Love intergenerational living😁 I moved back to my home town to be close to my Nana. Am getting my quartz countertops from granite tops, they're such a good price for the quality! For sofa's you could look at homeline furniture. I know its a bit of a trek in Tipperary but they are the comfiest couches I've ever had.

    6. Furniture design gallery in Navan! There's a load of other family run furniture making companies on that road as well (beechmount home park – but not the sherlock place.). They custom-made our couch, and its so comfortable. Like I've slept on it all night and not felt a thing next morning. Most of those places can make adjustments to the height of the seat, or back, or whatever to it fits your sitting position. That road is the place to go if you know what you want in a couch.

    7. My parents and my family are hoping to buy land and build but we can't come to an agreement on location so we'll see! That would be ideal though since I love the idea of intergeneration living

    8. Great to see your updates! Wow, I can't imagine how you're all getting along living through all the renovations, one after another! They are really disruptive and messy and so many decisions to make. I just got through about a year of home remodeling projects, one of which was a total remake of the main floor bathroom, and I'm still sorting things out a few months later. How sweet that you have found a way to live with your dad so you each have space to yourselves but can be there for each other. Best wishes to Papa Murphy with his health!

    9. We got two amazing couches from EZ Living and tested out the couches in their showroom. We have green walls exactly like yours and have a deep blue velvet couch for guests (bit more snazzy and modern) and then a really comfy, chunky light grey couch which is our ultimate chill out spot and a nice contrast to the dark, sleek couch.

    10. Newcomer to the multigenerational living situation.
      My husband and I moved onto his parents property last year. The two of us plus our 2.5 year old live in a travel trailer on their land.
      It’s both wonderful and awful at the same time. Small living has been an easy transition, and I don’t at all mind being in a trailer. However- I dearly miss the privacy, the solitude, and the independence that came with living on our own.
      There’s also the dynamic of choosing which spouses parents.
      I find that I often day dream about living near or with my own father versus my husbands, and am saddened my daughter hardly knows she even has another set of grandparents.
      Love the cottage, and hang in there with the chaos of renovating. . . . It never truly ends. Just a rotation of what needs done the most ❤

    11. When it comes to sofas, I would be all over gettin' a moss green one and a tree bark brown one.
      Also, you're da is a man right up my street: "Just wants to retire and play playstation." Hardcore wee gamer here, and I love that. lol

    12. Mostly a comment for the algorithm, but thanks for the realistic reno content! We have an old home as well (1912), and our renovations aren’t quite as ambitious, but it is still SO much work and SUCH a mess, especially with children in the mix and nap times and hazards to navigate. Such a joy to watch your progress!

    13. We got our couch from Sofas by Design in Beechmont home park – couldn't recommend them more they were so good and everything was up to us they literally build the couches from scratch. Even if you don't go with them it's a great retail park to visit cause there's LOADS of furniture shops. It's up in Navan so not too far from Skerries 👍

    14. these videos always make me really excited to have my own place of some kind sometime. and I know renovating can be so stressful and exhausting but you focus more on the nice aspects like getting to make everything exactly how you want it and being playful with it all. 🙂 <3

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